Leaving home successfully.
It is a big occasion in anybody's life when the time finally arrives for you to move out of home to start a life on your own. Sometime it is not planned, it is thrust upon you by circumstances, on other occasions it can become necessary if you are to take up a job offer. Whatever the reason, it is undeniably a life changing moment.
The important thing about leaving the family home to make it by yourself out there in the wide open world is that you must be able to pay your own way. You will have to have an income stream of some kind so that you can pay your bills and be able to support yourself. This could come about with help from your parents such as would occur if you have had to leave home in order to pursue further education. Otherwise you will have to have a job that pays you a sufficient amount whereby you are able to meet the rent, pay your power costs, buy adequate food and generally be able to 'keep your head above water.' To do all this you will need the following arrangements:
- You will need a bank account of your own. Having your own bank account goes hand in glove with branching out on your own. When you have to fend for yourself you will find that money takes on a whole new perspective. Basically everything you do will depend on whether you have the money to do it with or not. If you haven't the funds available you simply can't do it and this means going to that certain party you have been looking forward to, accepting a dinner invitation, or spending a weekend away with friends. Before you flew the coup mum or dad probably would have fronted the cost for you but now you have chosen to become independent you have to assume the responsibilities that go with it. This means opening a bank account in your own name and budgeting.
- You will need to make and stick to a budget. You have probably heard it before and you can be certain that you will hear it again but the best way to handle your money is by budgeting. When you make a budget and stick to it you will be living to a certain discipline. You will have a set amount of money coming in and in order to live you will have to pay a certain amount of money out. The secret to your short term and long term financial success isn't all that complicated. All you need do throughout your life is to make sure you are always earning more money than what you are spending. Make that your lifetime rule number one right from the start, to always live within your budget means.
- Link your accounts for added functionality. Many people leaving the comforts of their family home to make it by themselves prefer to have all their earning placed into their bank savings account. By doing this you are able to link a debit card to your savings account and pay all your bills either through the use of the card or online through internet banking. Online banking and debit card use gives you an up to date record of your transactions that are readily available at any time of the day or night. Although a credit card can be handy in an emergency it is best avoided, especially when you first branch out on your own. It is far better to save for the things you want and start off small, buying pieces of good furniture only as you can afford it. In the meantime you can always get by with cheap furniture from a second hand shop. Even a cheap second hand car will get you to all the same places as the latest model Ferrari.
- Saving for the future should start right from your first pay. Once you have your budget and bank account sorted out there comes the matter of 'saving for a rainy day.' None of us can predict our futures with any certainty but what we can assume is that at some stage something is sure to go wrong and when it does you should be ready. You can protect yourself by having enough in reserve to get you over a tough time such as losing your job or falling ill and becoming unable to work. To ensure you give yourself a chance to avoid the worst of such a situation occurring you should aim to put some money away each pay day. Have this included in your budget so that it can grow into a deposit on your own home in the future, or help you to buy a better car. The important thing is to start building a reserve so that it will always be there as a cushion should you need it.
- Never ignore the importance of insurance. You are now in your own flat, or apartment and everything you have in there with you will have a value if lost, stolen or destroyed in a fire. To ensure you are not out of pocket should any of these events happen to you should have all your possessions insured under a content insurance policy. The same goes for your ability to keep earning as you can only remain independent while you can earn an income. To ensure your cash flow will be retained you should take out income protection insurance that includes trauma and death cover.
Do all this and you will be giving yourself the best chance of succeeding in your endeavour to 'go it alone.'